Can you recall an experience in your life when an individual, or a group of individuals like politicians, have either received allot of money or gain the control of others money. More money than they have ever been used to being in control of.
Does the new found control of this money seem to put them out of control. Do they loose control.
What happens when the money is gone and the wheels fall off?
Spending the money with no control or direction on how it may affect their’s or your well being. Or your knowledge. Without control the money is quickly depleted. All the shiny pretty stuff no longer has meaning. The spending was just a crutch. And when the money is gone the crutch is ripped away. The individual or individuals fall hard.
If it was a group of people they may fall even harder and start blaming each other. They fight and they argue. They have a negative affect on their families and their communities. Lawyers soon get involved so that each person can prove that the other is wrong. The lawyers take what’s left of the money, and maybe even more.
The individuals end up losing more than the money. They have lost a part of their well being. Their health deteriorates. Their friendships and loved ones disappear. Whether the lawyers prove them right or not the reality is they have likely lost more than the money could buy.
The most important asset of all, time, has slipped past them like a thief has broken in when they weren’t paying attention and took it away from them. Time can never be repurchased.
Yet they focus their negative energy on the money that was lost. And then they call the money evil. Or the devil.
Some people say that money is the root of all evil. They say that if it weren’t for the money they would be happy. The reality is that money is money. It is a thing. When people give things life, without having a way to control it, the thing begins to control you.
How do you maintain control of things? By practicing awareness and measuring the impact that the thing has on your health and well-being. The well-being of your family and the wisdom that is gained through the benefit of having the money, or the thing. And how you impact the lives of others through your generosity. That’s how you maintain control. That’s how you keep ‘the thing’ from controlling ‘the you’.
When controlled and measured by its impact on areas of importance – the money will just be a thing. It’s impact will last indefinitely if utilized and controlled as a thing.
Money is not the devil – those who loose control of it are…